Does he like me · Result
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Probably not — at least not in that way
The signals just aren’t pointing toward you.
He may be friendly, busy, or unsure. Either way, you’re carrying most of it.
The pattern
On the things that matter — initiating, remembering, making plans, showing real attention — the answers came back light. That doesn’t make him a bad person, and it doesn’t mean nothing will ever change. It does mean what’s happening right now isn’t a romance ramping up; it’s closer to one-sided. You probably already knew that, somewhere.
What you might do next
- Stop reading meaning into rare warm moments — those are the exception in this pattern, not the trend.
- Take a step back without announcing it. Notice what he does when you’re not the one keeping it alive.
- Spend energy on people who already show up consistently. The attention you’re giving him is a love language someone else would meet you in.
These are options, not orders. You know your situation; we don’t.
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