Does he like me · Result
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Mixed signals
You’re not imagining the inconsistency.
He shows up sometimes, then drifts. The signal isn’t broken — it’s mixed.
The pattern
Some weeks he’s warm and present; some weeks he goes vague. That isn’t you misreading him — it’s actually mixed. It can mean a lot of things: he’s into you but anxious, he likes the attention more than he likes you specifically, he’s in a complicated season of his own life, or he’s avoidant and pulls back when it gets close. Mixed signals are still a signal.
What you might do next
- Stop scoring individual texts and watch the rhythm over a month. Patterns are honest; moments aren’t.
- Resist the urge to chase during quiet stretches. If he reappears only when you stop initiating, that’s information.
- A single direct conversation — not an interrogation, just one honest sentence — usually clarifies more than four weeks of guessing.
These are options, not orders. You know your situation; we don’t.
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