Does he like me · Result
Red flags — protect your energy
This isn’t hard to read; it’s hard to accept.
There’s a pattern of disappearing, vagueness, or one-way effort that isn’t going to fix itself.
The pattern
You named at least one thing that goes beyond "uninterested" and into "actively unkind to your nervous system" — long radio silences followed by convenient reappearances, physical interest with emotional vagueness, or avoidance whenever depth shows up. None of that is your fault, and none of it is fixable by being smaller, sweeter, or more available. The kindest read of this is: he isn’t able or willing to give you what a real connection requires.
What you might do next
- You don’t need a confrontation. You need distance. Stop initiating and see what’s actually there.
- Anxious-attached people often double down here — it’s the brain confusing intensity for love. The Attachment quiz is worth taking honestly.
- Tell one trusted person what’s been happening. Saying it out loud makes it harder for him to rewrite the story later.
These are options, not orders. You know your situation; we don’t.
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Sometimes the question "does he like me?" is really a question about your nervous system, your love language, or what you’re actually compatible with.